Venus Sextile Venus
Venus sextile Venus describes a smooth, low-friction flow between two expressions of Venus: tastes, affection, money sense, aesthetics, and social rhythms. It does not occur within a single natal chart (you only have one Venus), but it shines in synastry, in transits when the current Venus sextiles your natal Venus, and in progressions or solar arcs. A sextile is a 60° supportive link that invites cooperation rather than forcing it; think easy opportunities that respond well when you make a small effort. This aspect often reads as “we like similar things and coordinate without drama,” or, during a transit, “this week flows better—say yes to pleasant plans.” If you’re looking for romance or creative harmony, this aspect is one of the gentlest green lights. It won’t do the work for you, but it opens the door and keeps it open. For artists, hosts, designers, and anyone managing relationships or budgets, Venus sextile Venus is a reliable helper. Learn how to spot it and use its timing.
- Vibe: warm, sociable, aesthetically aligned, low-maintenance cooperation
- Best for: dates, launches, gifts, money talks, styling, reconciliation
- Requires: a small nudge; say yes, initiate gently, follow through
First principles: what a sextile does
A sextile links compatible elements (Fire–Air, Earth–Water). It signifies opportunity through light effort. It is not dramatic like a square nor effortlessly fused like a trine; it’s cooperative, social, and responsive. With Venus involved, that cooperation applies to tastes, affection, values, and money choices.
Important note: no natal Venus sextile Venus
Inside a single birth chart, you cannot have Venus sextile Venus. You only have one Venus. You can, however, experience:
- Transit Venus sextile your natal Venus (short, sweet windows every ~8 months)
- Secondary progressed Venus sextile natal Venus (months to years of gentle social/creative/financial opening)
- Synastry Venus sextile Venus with another person (taste/affection alignment)
Synastry: when one person’s Venus sextiles the other’s Venus
In relationship astrology (compatibility), this is one of the easiest “we get each other” signals. The first person’s Venus and the second person’s Venus have compatible love languages, social pace, and spending/pleasure habits. The couple gravitates to similar venues, colors, music, and ways of showing care. Conflicts over money or aesthetics are easier to resolve because both value harmony and practicality here.
Strengths you can count on
- Dates plan themselves; you both say “that sounds fun.”
- Gift-giving clicks; fewer “thanks, but…” moments.
- Finances: shared priorities reduce stress; you find middle ground quickly.
- Social life: similar crowd tolerance and event preferences.
How to activate it
- Make small offers often: “Walk and coffee?” “Matinee?” “Cook together?”
- Sync values: name the top 3 things you spend on and why; set a simple budget lane.
- Collaborate creatively: mood-board a room, playlist a trip, plan a dinner party.
Tip: Note which houses the Venuses occupy; a sextile from one partner’s Venus into the other’s 2nd house emphasizes money/valuables, into the 5th house romance/pleasure, and into the 11th house shared friends/community.
Transit Venus sextile natal Venus
When current Venus sextiles your natal Venus, the next few days soften edges and invite connection. It’s great for first impressions, repairing rapport, choosing art or clothes, pitching ideas that need likability, and making reasonably priced purchases you’ll keep using.
Do
- Schedule dates, client outreach, interviews, and social events.
- Buy quality basics, beauty care, or decor that matches your taste.
- Make a fair offer or renegotiate fees amicably.
- Refresh profiles, headshots, or brand visuals.
Watch
- Complacency: say yes, but still follow through.
- Splurging “because it feels right”: set a sensible cap.
Layering: If the same transit also aspects your Moon or ruler, the effect is stronger. If Venus is retrograde, favor reconnection and review over brand-new commitments.
Progressed/Solar-Arc Venus sextile natal Venus
Progressed Venus moves slowly; when it sextiles natal Venus, you get a longer chapter (often many months) of increasing social ease, gentle romantic opening, and stabilization of tastes and income streams. It’s subtle but cumulative.
- Relationships: friendships deepen; a “type” crystallizes without narrowing options.
- Work: sticky client relationships; repeat business grows through goodwill.
- Aesthetics: you settle into a style that lasts beyond trends.
Element pairings that commonly create the sextile
A sextile occurs between compatible elements. If your Venus is in a Fire sign and theirs is in an Air sign—or your Venus is in an Earth sign and theirs in a Water sign—the Venus–Venus sextile is possible.
Practical uses by life area
Love
- Plan a low-pressure first date; pick mutual middle-ground venues.
- Offer a small thoughtful gift that reflects a shared taste.
Money
- Align subscriptions and recurring expenses to shared values.
- Negotiate cooperatively—signal win–win terms early.
Style/Art
- Edit wardrobe/decor; keep what sparks real use and ease.
- Collaborate on a playlist, mood board, or brand palette.
Social
- Host a small gathering; pair good lighting with simple food.
- Reconnect with friends you genuinely enjoy.
Compare Venus–Venus aspects
- Venus Conjunction Venus: immediate familiarity; can blur differences.
- Venus Trine Venus: ultra-easy flow; comfort-first, risk of complacency.
- Venus Square Venus: attraction with friction; style/value clashes to resolve.
- Venus Opposition Venus: complementarity and pull–push over preferences.
Sextile sits between trine’s ease and square’s work: it opens doors you still need to walk through.
Common misconceptions
- “It guarantees chemistry.” It supports it; other factors decide intensity (e.g., Mars, Moon).
- “It fixes money issues.” It eases talks; budgets still require choices.
- “It’s the same as a trine.” Sextiles ask for light action; trines can function on autopilot.
- “There’s a composite Venus–Venus sextile.” In composite charts there’s only one Venus—so no.
Timing and duration
- Transit Venus sextile natal Venus: roughly 2–4 days of peak ease (apply–exact–separate).
- Retrograde cycles may repeat the sextile 2–3 times: review → reconnect → finalize.
- Progressed/Solar-arc: months to years of gentle, accumulating opportunity.
FAQs
Is Venus sextile Venus good for starting a relationship?
Yes. It’s a green light for first dates and soft launches. If you also see supportive aspects to the Moon or the rulers of the 5th/7th houses, momentum is stronger.
What if we don’t feel much even with this aspect?
It can show compatibility without spark. Check Mars-to-Venus, Sun–Moon, or Pluto contacts for attraction and depth.
Does house placement matter?
Yes. If one Venus falls into the other’s money or partnership houses, effects focus there. See houses like the 7th house (partnership) or 5th house (romance).
How often does the transit happen?
About every 8 months, with variations from retrogrades. Mark it and plan pleasant tasks accordingly.
Go further
Explore more on aspects, dive into planets, or review your placements in signs. For compatibility by sign pairs, start here: Compatibility Hub.