Aspects
Aspects looks at attraction, attachment style, trust, conflict repair, and shared direction between two charts. For sign-to-sign starting points, begin at the Compatibility hub.
Aspects: what it covers
We connect temperament, needs, and goals into a realistic picture of romance—how you meet, attach, argue, forgive, and grow. Start broad with sign-to-sign chemistry at the Compatibility hub.
Charts for romantic analysis
- Synastry: overlay both charts to see contact points and friction.
- Composite: the relationship’s shared chart—tone, purpose, and story.
- Transits/progressions: timing for starts, vows, repairs. Tools in Astrology Charts.
Where the spark comes from
- Venus shows taste, ease, and affection.
- Mars shows desire, pace, and pursuit style.
- Sun–Sun and Moon–Moon aspects shape vibe and comfort fast.
- House 5 overlays highlight romance, play, and dates.
How it lasts: trust, rules, and repair
- Saturn builds commitment, timing, and mature love.
- Mercury aspects set the feedback style; clarify expectations early.
- Oppositions can balance roles; squares demand process and empathy.
- House 7 overlays show partnership skills and agreements.
Intimacy, care, and shared rituals
- Moon bonds through rhythm, rest, and safety.
- Neptune adds romance and awe—keep boundaries clear.
- Pluto deepens trust; name power dynamics early and kindly.
- House 8 overlays speak to merging, secrets, and resource sharing.
Key houses for romance
- House 5: dating, play, creative spark.
- House 7: long-term partnership, agreements, respect.
- House 8: intimacy, debts, shared power and healing.
- House 4: home base, care, emotional roots.
Planets that set the tone
Aspects: glue, grit, and growth
Conjunctions create instant pull; trines and sextiles keep flow easy; squares sharpen honesty and skills; oppositions teach perspective. Learn fundamentals at the Aspects hub.
Transits that shift seasons of love
- Venus transits favor dates, reconciliations, and vows.
- Jupiter opens adventures and long-term plans.
- Saturn defines boundaries, responsibilities, and next steps.
- Eclipses near House 5/11 or 1/7 reset romance and partnership.
How to read your charts together
- Create both charts at Birth Chart.
- Run synastry: check Venus/Mars/Moon links and House 5/7 overlays.
- Make a composite to see shared tone and future arc.
- Choose one ritual (weekly date) and one boundary (repair rule).
- Scan the next 90 days of transits to time milestones.
FAQ
Do we need exact birth times?
Helpful, not mandatory. Without exact times, avoid firm statements about house overlays and angles. Focus on planet aspects and big themes.
Which aspects matter most for Aspects?
Venus/Mars for attraction and style, Moon for bonding, Mercury for communication, Saturn for longevity. A balanced mix works best.
Can tough aspects still work?
Yes. Squares can become growth and clarity; oppositions bring perspective. Name the pattern, set agreements, and keep a simple repair ritual.