Romantic
Romantic explores how charts describe friendship chemistry—shared humor, trust, timing, and the group dynamics that make a bond easy or high-maintenance. For sign-to-sign guides, start at the Compatibility hub.
Romantic: what it covers
We read how two charts play together in everyday life—conversation flow, energy levels, plans, and loyalty signals. For sign-to-sign starting points visit the Compatibility hub, then layer houses, planets, and timing.
Charts for friendship
- Synastry overlays show contact points and blind spots.
- Composite chart reveals the friendship’s tone and purpose.
- Transits flag meetup windows, trips, and growth seasons. Tools in Astrology Charts.
Chemistry markers to check first
- Sun–Sun and Moon–Moon aspects for vibe and comfort.
- Mercury links for jokes, plans, and conflict style. Learn Mercury basics at Mercury.
- Venus contacts for ease and shared tastes.
- Mars contacts for activity level; set rules if it gets too spicy.
Friends-of-friends and the group chat
House 11 shows circles and community norms; compare with each person’s House 5 (play) and House 3 (chat). Start with the social blueprint at House 11.
Boundaries, repair, and longevity
- Saturn contacts stabilize but require respect and timing. See Saturn.
- Neptune adds magic; keep plans clear to avoid flaking.
- Pluto bonds deeply; name power dynamics early and kindly.
Key houses for friendship
Planets that set the tone
Aspects: glue vs. grit
Conjunctions bond quickly; trines and sextiles keep plans easy; squares sharpen honesty and skill; oppositions teach perspective. For fundamentals, see the Aspects hub.
Transits that boost friendship
- Jupiter transits favor trips, projects, and new circles.
- Venus transits make hangouts effortless—plan reunions.
- Saturn seasons define expectations; great for traditions.
- Uranus sparks fresh activities; try a class or hackathon.
How to read friendship charts
- Create both charts at Birth Chart.
- Run synastry: check Mercury/Venus/Mars links and House 11 overlays.
- Make a composite to see shared vibe and mission.
- Pick one tradition (monthly call, hobby, trip) and one boundary.
- Scan the next 90 days of transits to time plans.